Alyssa Kulesa

Poems, notes and deep(er) dives

The full collection of my musings in different forms to match your mood. Things I noticed and thought were worth mentioning.

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    Is the box really there?

    Look, I hate being boxed in. Walking through the catacombs in Paris? No thank you. Entering an elevator with more people than you’d be comfortable getting stuck with? Also, no. Like I’ve said before, boxes have a tendency to make…

  • Note

    On Restlessness

    Sometimes we feel restless because we need to take a deep breath and remind ourselves that everything is well and truly fine. But sometimes we’re restless because we need to rest less.  If you’ve been ignoring some creative urge, it’s…

  • Note

    On letting the pen do the talking

    Sometimes when I feel off, I pick up a (red) pen and start moving my hand without any rhyme or reason. Whenever I do this, there’s inevitably a moment when I feel like an insane person as I wait for…

  • Deep(er) dive

    When knowledge distorts your clarity

    It’s midnight here in Spain, and I’m headed to Chicago in 6 hours to kick off the wedding week! Today I’m spicing up your inbox with 10 quick thoughts on intellect, creativity, and originality. I’m planning to turn these 10 points into a cohesive piece centered around the impact of regurgitated content all over the internet (but it needs to…

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    Shaking it Up Like a Snowglobe

    I feel a little bit nervous as I let my fingertips brush over my pink keyboard for the first time in what feels like eternity. Anyone who teaches about “building an email list” will tell you A) not to ghost…

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  • What Makes it Easier to Choose Transformation?

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    What Makes it Easier to Choose Transformation?

    “Where are you?” ⁠ ⁠ “I’m in the car.”⁠ ⁠ “Be right there.” ⁠ ⁠ When I lived near my dear friend Kerason this was a weekly conversation. ⁠ ⁠ So the thing I miss most about city living isn’t being…

  • How to Craft Your Success

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    How to Craft Your Success

    White picket fences make me want to barf… But I’ll circle back to that in a second.  One of the things that drives me absolutely crazy about social media is this seeming collective vision of what success looks like. (Hopping…

  • Why I’m Set on Millions (It’s Not What You’d Expect)

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    Why I’m Set on Millions (It’s Not What You’d Expect)

    I’m sitting on my terrace drinking coffee and having this conversation with myself… I intend to accumulate serious wealth for one very simple reason… To increase choice in my life. ✨ Not so I can have a fancy car, or the…

  • Shedding Good Girl Conditioning and Taking up Space

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    Shedding Good Girl Conditioning and Taking up Space

    I’m a rule breaker who’s been hidden in the body of a “Good Girl”, and quite often that is pure torture. I guess it should come as no surprise to me (or my parents) that I’ve only ever dated guys…

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    I couldn’t cry

    11 months ago I couldn’t cry. I can still hear myself saying, “I feel like I need to cry but no tears will come.” Geoff & I joke about it now, but it was a real thing for the first…

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    What I learned from my orchid

    Hey there, The orchid my friend gave me for my 30th birthday back in April is still alive, which is nothing short of a miracle.  I’m committed to being an excellent plant parent, but my track record is virtually non-existent, so…

  • Part 3: Boxes make me panic.

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    Part 3: Boxes make me panic.

    “Who on earth is this for?” This question about killed me until it didn’t.  You see, I’m claustrophobic and any time I think about getting trapped in a box, I panic. I don’t even like getting twisted under the covers…

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    Part 2: What do you want?

    If you’re in the process of determining what’s next for you right now, I’ve intentionally designed this series for you to be able to follow along and use some of the same questions I did to help you uncover what…

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    Part 1: So what now?

    I was texting my friend Marisa the other day, and at the end of our convo, her last text to me was, “What a difference a year can make, right?” It got me thinking about just how true that statement…